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Sandwiched
My attempt at describing what it is to be solo in the sandwich generation.
Apr 233 min read


Birthday Reflections
I will be entering my final year in my 40s in a few days, and I have been filled with dread/ anxiety/ concern….
Jan 44 min read


Garbage In, Garbage Out
Ruminations on mindset and perspective in a hard season.
Aug 30, 20242 min read


Perspective
These perimenopausal days of mine somehow feel like pivotal times in a way that is different from the ground shift that came with widowhood.
Jul 25, 20243 min read


Taking Things Slowly
Reflections on this slower pace of living I have chosen.
Feb 22, 20243 min read


What's In Your Photo Album?
A friend said to me recently, "You take a lot of photos. Are they for Instagram?"
Jan 10, 20244 min read


If... Then...
Reflections on a memory
Jan 6, 20243 min read


Surviving the Holidays
How am I surviving the holidays?
Dec 29, 20235 min read


A COVID Death
My first and final attempt at writing about Mike's death.
Oct 19, 20235 min read


Keeper of Memories
In the wake of my aunt's recent death, I am reminded of the importance of stories.
Oct 16, 20233 min read


My Promise
I made a promise to Mike on his deathbed.
Oct 12, 20235 min read


Unspent Love
The author Jamie Anderson says grief is unspent love. What on earth am I to do with that?
Oct 9, 20234 min read


A Blessed Week
This week was earmarked for emotional turmoil.
Oct 5, 20234 min read


A Life's Purpose
When we die, will we have fulfilled our life's purpose?
Oct 2, 20233 min read


Carrying on a Pizza Legacy
Mike left us a pizza legacy.
Sep 25, 20236 min read


The Trouble with Marrying Mr. Fix-It
As it turns out, I am a little bit of a Mrs. Fix-It. Grudgingly and by circumstance.
Aug 31, 20235 min read


The Things We Do For One Another
I cleaned a plethora of fish for my mother.
Aug 28, 20234 min read


My Best Days
Are my best days really behind me now?
Aug 21, 20233 min read


A Trip to the Big Apple
Mike always wanted to take his girls to New York City.
Aug 17, 20233 min read


When Sadness Calls
The other day, I was in a funk.
Aug 10, 20234 min read
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